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Forms of Domestic Violence
There are many forms of behavior directed toward women that many
of us may or may not have recognized as abusive. Below is a list
of the three forms of abuse and the behaviors associated with that
particular type of abuse.
Physical Abuse
Has your intimate partner done any of these things to you?
- Pushed you or shoved you
- Held you to keep you from leaving
- Slapped or bit you
- Kicked or choked you
- Thrown objects at you
- Locked you out of the house
- Abandoned you in dangerous places
- Refused to help you when you were sick, injured, or pregnant
- Subjected you to reckless driving
- Forced you off the road or kept you from driving
- Raped you
- Threatened or hurt you with a weapon
Sexual Abuse
Has your partner done any of these things to you?
- Told anti-women jokes or made demeaning remarks about women
- Treated women as sex objects
- Been angry and jealous, assuming you would have sex with any available
man
- Insisted you dress in a more sexual way than you wanted
- Minimized the importance of your feelings about sex
- Criticized you sexually
- Insisted on unwanted and uncomfortable touching
- Withheld sex and affection
- Called you sexual names like "Whore" and "Frigid"
- Forced you to strip when you didn't want to
- Publicly showed sexual interest in other women
- Had affairs with other women after agreeing to a monogamous relationship
- Forced sex with him or others or forced you to watch others
- Forced particular unwanted sex acts
- Forced sex after beating you
- Forced sex when you were sick or when it was a danger to your
health
- Forced sex for the purpose of hurting you with objects or weapons
- Committed sadistic sexual acts
Emotional Abuse
How many of these things has your partner done to you
- Ignored your feelings
- Ridiculed or insulted women as a group
- Ridiculed or insulted your most valued
beliefs, your religion, heritage, or class
- Withheld approval, appreciation, or affection
as a punishment
- Continually criticized you, called you
names, shouted at you
- Insulted or drove away your friends or
family
- Humiliated you in public or in private
- Refused to socialize with you
- Kept you from working, controlled your
money, made all the decisions
- Refused to work or share money
- Took car keys or money away
- Regularly threatened to leave or told you
to leave
- Threatened to hurt you or your family
- Punished or deprived the children when
he was angry at you
- Threatened to kidnap the children when
he was angry at you
- Abused pets to hurt you
- Told you about affairs he imagined you
were having
- Manipulated you with lies and contradictions
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Facts About Domestic
Violence
What is domestic abuse?
Forms of domestic abuse
Characteristics of an abusive
personality
Domestic abuse and children

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